A post-game tradition that has left its mark on all youth sports: handshake lines. A tradition believed to have originated around 1908 in professional sports, primarily in the NHL (National Hockey League), has left a lasting impression on most sports today.
Still to this day, we see professional hockey teams participating in these activities, such as when the Florida Panthers defeated the Carolina Hurricanes in a 7-game series, beating them 4 games to 1 on May 28, 2025.
It is not after every game that NHLers will form a formal handshake line, but it is only after a playoff series is won. This is a time-honored tradition particular to the NHL. So, with the final horn sounding, ending the Hurricanes’ season, both teams made their way to center ice. However, winning Panthers coach Paul Maurice decided to ask Hurricanes Coach Rod Brind’Amour for them both to not participate in the post-game tradition.
This sparked controversy from the viewers – it was a major shift. Many were left wondering why the coaches had not participated in this long-standing, widely respected tradition. After the game, however, the fog was lifted. It was revealed Coach Maurice told Coach Rod Brind’Amour it should be for the players rather than make it about themselves.
Many were left feeling unsure about Maurice’s actions, but it was all able to be pushed under the rug as the team now advances to the Stanley Cup Final.
Now, here is what I think about the situation and the handshake lines in youth sports as an athlete myself. When competing, it is you and your teammates against your opponents. With that, you are also competing against that coach; the opposing coach is planning, prepping, and doing their absolute best to win. Without a coach planning and putting in the time, there would be no one being held accountable and no adjustments made to teams.
If it were me as a player, I would be extremely upset with the decision of Coach Maurice. At the end of the day, we are all competing against each other and deserve the respect of a “good game” or “great work, see you next year” especially as a professional.
In youth sports, it is extremely important for this to be achieved. Although I may not always like the team I’m playing against, it’s important to have kids remember to leave it on the field. Sometimes you get embarrassed on the field, and sometimes you are in close, heated games where you find yourself doing something you shouldn’t do, but at the end of the game, we’re all competitors playing the same sport.
Handshakes should continue to be a beacon of respect after youth sports games. It teaches the younger players that, although you’re competing, you’re both human and deserving of respect from your opponents.
